The Devil Dwelling in a Love Relationship
In most relationships there is a devil dwelling in there. It kills the relationship sooner other than later. The devil manifests itself like a multi headed monster. It comes in forms of money problems, drunkenness, infidelity, nagging, excessive jealousy, greed, friends, and sometimes relatives. It is your job to kill the monster as soon as you can, if you love keeping the relationship going.
Money can be a major cause of breakdown of love relationship. Money is very critical because it makes you afford things that you would normally just dream about. It makes you enjoy those niceties of life. In as much as money is very important, it is not the basis of a love relationship. There are many people who base their love on it and they are therefore not in love. They are not in a relationship at all. If you sense that your partner is in it for money, for heaven sake end the relationship. Do it as soon as possible. Do it because people do not change.
Drunkenness is another devil in a relationship. If your partner is a drunkard, know you are in trouble. Chances are very high that he will bring a disease at home. If he does not bring a disease, he will soon become impotent. Both of these problems are undesirable and therefore a solution should be found for the drunkenness if the relationship is to last.
In a recent talk show here in South Africa a lady called in and said that her partner raped her every time he came back drunk. She confessed that she is HIV positive despite having known only him. It is therefore more likely that he slept around during some of his drunken moments.
Infidelity in a relationship is one of the greatest devils. If it inflicts one partner, it will inflict the other as she looks for revenge. When she revenges by sleeping around also, then there is no relationship. Why bother continuing with this sham. Break it off immediately avoid the pain.
Nagging is finding a problem in everything small and big and you air your concerns. Some people erroneously call it openness. It is not that at all. You are simply poisoning the relationship. Stop it, if you do not your partner will avoid you like a plague.
Excessive jealousy is another devil in a relationship. I once had a partner who was very jealousy that nothing could pass her by. She once fished a piece of paper from a toilet just to know what was written on it. That is as far as she could go to know. This kind of hyper jealousness does not endear you to your partner, it simply pushes him away. No one wants to be herded like cattle.
Greed is one of the greatest devils in a relationship. It scares your partner away when you keep asking for more and more of earthly goods. Remember it is impossible to get everything. Apple keeps on churning out a new iPhone every year. Just imagine you want them all! Where will it all end?
Friends and relatives are more often than not confusing agents. You should discuss with them general matters and not relationship problems. You should realize that more often than not they can not solve them any way. I here you saying, that it lightens the burden. That is true and then does the burden go away?
Kill those devils before they kill your relationship.
Love starts with you loving yourself enough. Do the right things and then seek help from Dr Dada. When everything is done in unison success will be on your side. Click here to contact Dr Dada.