Love?
You Get Lovers You Seek
but You Can Get Better Ones
There several types of love. They include Eros, Storge, Phileo, Agape etcetera.
But, here am concerned with that feeling of caring, campanioship, sensitivity, intimacy, commitment, passion and often sexually consumated. The love felt between a man for a woman or the other way round or even same sex love. That is what concerns me.
And when you look at that definition of love you will realize that all the forms of love that is: Eros, Storge, Phileo and Agape must exist for love to be fullfilled. The absence of one means that love is incomplete and a relationship will break down soon or later.
What are these types of love?
Agape love is falling in love with a peson no matter his faults. It does not matter his short comings or failures you love the person. Failure for unconditional love means that it is just a matter of time, the relationship will be weighed down by problems. how many times the other offends them or causes them to have ill feelings.
You must have tender affection for each other. You must freely touch, kiss and cuddle. This storge love. This touching and kissing brings you close to each other. If you can do this to him, it means you do not feel affectionate enough for your partner.
You must have the capacity to enjoy each other's company. That is phileo love.
To round it all you must be able to come together in flesh. That is have sexual relationship. This is what we call eros.
How do you get your love partners?
Some people often find themselves with the same kind of men or women for that matter. That is an insesitive, un commited, with no passion, and only use you for his own sexual satisfaction. That is where your relationship starts and ends with your partner. There is no love here however much you want to cover up things.
But, in life you attract what you are. Take an aloof look at yourself. Where do you get your partners from? What do you look for in a partner? What do you do to get a partner? Be candid to yourself. You will be surprised to find that the partners that you get in your life are actually as a result of the true answers you gave above.
Thinking is the corner stone of what happens in our lives. It is the secret of life. You get what you think. Few people ever get things by accident.
What can you do to get better love partners?
You can get love. It is a matter of being realistic to yourself. Focus on the man you want. Visualize that man. Focus all your daily thoughts on that man. The energies of the universe will start cristalizing this man for you. You can also go here to find true love to learn more.
But life does not end there. You have to play your role as well. Psychics and traditional healers have a capacity to help you get love.