Saving Your Marriage
Will Need More Than Logic....
Love in a marriage will detoriate after a few years....
The first few years of a relationship and marriage are the sweetest and the happiest that is if love did exist at all before the marriage. I am saying if love existed at all before the marriage, because people marry for different reasons.
But like anything that is used on a daily basis love fades with time. Fading of love either by one partner falling out of love or both, leads to failed marriage. Major causes of failed marriages are discussed on this page – marriage problems.
Logic things to do to save a marriage....
Many experts have put forward things that can be done to save a marriage, but they all come down to one word – Caring. Caring is the process of being responsive to each others most emotional needs. These emotional needs are those things after receiving them you are left happy and contended.
Testimonial
I came to you in April 2010 when my marriage was on the rocks. You gave me some herbs to burn and words to say. It all sounded like a joke to me. Remember, I come from a "modern" society. How could burning herbs and chanting a few words change the fighting that was going on in the house. But, I was trying everything as I was desperate.
I want to let you know how wrong I was. The fighting has ended. There is healing and our connection has deepened as a couple.
We are now leaving a peaceful existence never before experienced in this family. Our house has changed from a fear filled place, to a place of tranquility. I look forward to being a testimony and a source of inspiration to others to explore their own healing path and possibly they will also find you. I am forever grateful for this blessing of an experience and I hope that I will make my way back to you again and again! Love light blessings and gratitude to all involved in making this a reality! Thank you for existing!
Jacquiline Ma,
Hong Kong
Emotional triggers....
The most important emotional triggers that can save a marriage are: admiration, affection, conversation, domestic support, family commitment, financial support, honesty and openness, physical attractiveness, recreational companionship and sexual fulfillment.
When those emotional triggers are shared in a marriage you are sure that they will ignite the relationship and keep it stable and save it from collapsing.
The assumption is that you share the giving and receiving....
The assumption here is that there is mutual giving and receiving of these emotional triggers. But unfortunately a human being is a very complex animal. To some people the more you try to make them happy the more they resent you, more so when there is a third person in the relationship.
But can a marriage be saved if one partner is in love with a third person....?
If one of the parties is seeing some one else I wonder whether there is anything logical that can be done to save the relationship other than using meta-physical powers.
A case study....
One former soccer star in one of the major teams in the world recently let out secret about his failed marriage. He caught his wife cheating on him. This was settled. One day with the whole family seated for a meal she unleashed a bombshell on them. She told them that she had found another person and therefore was going to divorce the father and marry the new person. The family was devastated.
When the soccer star caught her in the first instance, I am sure he tried his best to invest in all kinds of emotional investments to make the marriage work, after all they had children. Alas, it did not work. She continued seeing this same person in secret. Money was never an issue in this marriage. So, why did it fail? You have seen this over and over again.
How do Africans save their marriages....?
But, what makes African marriages last with all the daily trials they go through? You will find a man married to three wives and none is going. What makes this happen?
Spirutual or Traditional healers can help....
Well it is traditional healers. These are people who bind these people together in a relationship forever. Should you find yourself in a marriage and you feel you can not let go, then look for a traditional healer to help. Welll that is what it is. It is a choice you have to make. Know one thing, if there is a third person in a relationship nothing logical will stop these people seeing each other, other than some superior powers, period.
I for one for example have ancestral powers that can do for you anything you want in a marriage. If you think I can help please contact me. Click here to send me a message.